Dear Selfless Esteem, I just got a promotion and I should be celebrating but I'm scared to start my new position. As the ...

Dear Selfless Esteem, I just had a baby and I didn’t expect such hardship. I thought I was already parenting in a way because I have stepchildren. The baby shower was full of cute things, yet no one ...

Dear Selfless Esteem, I read recently that going to therapy is helpful because it helps a person work on their problems by talking to a therapist. What’s the ...

Dear Selfless Esteem, Does the “Let Them” theory contradict the Bible? Doesn’t the Bible say that we should motivate each other to do good works? It also says to make disciples all over the world. In ...

Dear Selfless Esteem, My husband and I have been together now for over 20 years – whilst we get along and are good friends, I feel we simply don’t make time for each other anymore. I can see us ...

Dear Selfless Esteem, How do I know if I’m dealing with a narcissist? Signed, Feeling Gaslit Dear Feeling Gaslit, That’s a good question. Whether it’s a family member, coworker, or significant other, ...

Dear Selfless Esteem, My dog died and I miss him so much. He was my fur baby and I can’t believe he’s gone. Do you think the Rainbow Bridge is true? I can’t bear the thought that I’ll never see him ...

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Dear Selfless Esteem, How do you know when it's right to discontinue a friendship? A friend I've known for years is constantly wanting me to take her places.

Dear Selfless Esteem, It's so hard for me to get out of bed in the morning because I'm not a morning person. Any suggestions? Signed, Too Tired ...

5. Pray Use the time in the car to talk to God. Worshipping Him will take the focus off your problems and onto His love and care for you. You mentioned the “rude and brainless” drivers you have to ...