Hopefully, the funeral home will provide answers. It is not necessary to write a thank-you note to everyone who came to the visitation, or the funeral or who sent a card, but you want to, go ahead.

– Wondering in Massachusetts Dear Wondering: Sending a thank you note to someone who has sent a sympathy card is truly next-level loveliness, and I admire any grieving person who manages to do it.

Advice Miss Manners: No, you aren’t owed a thank-you note for attending a funeral Published: Feb. 18, 2025, 11:30 a.m.

People remember when you write a note, especially when it’s to give sympathy or thanks. If you’re a manager, you’d likely be surprised at how long your employees hold onto hand-written notes.